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Topic History of: John Hunt Max. showing the last 5 posts - (Last post first)
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Green Man
robbiex wrote: If a woman who is much younger, better looking, or taller than you gives you a lot of attention, that is a big red flag.
I've seen men at singles events chatting up women who are a foot taller and 10-15 years younger, unless you are very rich or powerful this is only going to end in dissapointment.
What do you mean by rich and powerful?
Sounds like the men you see are punching up. If I had a dream girl she would be from Dixie with a thick Southern drawl, pig tails and owns a trailer.
robbiex
If a woman who is much younger, better looking, or taller than you gives you a lot of attention, that is a big red flag.
I've seen men at singles events chatting up women who are a foot taller and 10-15 years younger, unless you are very rich or powerful this is only going to end in dissapointment.
Green Man
I have no idea Jo to be honest, it's not my business nor did I really care. I was more interested in him paying me.
It's funny on Facebook/X that big boob women(scammers) want to be friends and show sexual interest to random men, in hope for money.
I am glad, that I am not on the dating scene.
Jo
Green Man wrote: I know a hotel manager in Dorset who boasts about DM's on his phone, there were hundreds. He has numerous women on the go. My partner asked him how he got all those numbers and women? The response was bluntly put Facebook and Badoo.
I don't know many single people, every one I know is settled. Unless they are widowed.
Wonder how many of the women are real and how many are scammers. In this video, it's said that around 30% of the people on Match.com were - maybe still are - estimated to be scammers.
robbiex
Green Man wrote: robbiex wrote: Green Man wrote:
Social media has made dating a lot easier, in my generation you had to chat up and make an effort. You had to accept rejection or a few "Fuck Offs". A lot of women I did try chat up, went to powder their noses and never came back.
I don't want to go off topic, but social media hasn't made it easier to date. Dating sites are 80% of women going after 20% of the men. Also #Metoo has made the relationships between men and women difficult. Men are often viewed in terms of toxic maculinity Also I don't think pubs have ever been a good place for dating. People go to pubs on their friends. You can't just interject a group of friends to ask someone for date. Nightclubs maybe for the young are more socially acceptable for approaching strangers.
I know a hotel manager in Dorset who boasts about DM's on his phone, there were hundreds. He has numerous women on the go. My partner asked him how he got all those numbers and women? The response was bluntly put Facebook and Badoo.
I don't know many single people, every one I know is settled. Unless they are widowed.[/quote]
It may just be a boast or he may be in the top 20% with regards to looks, money, and power. Also having numbers doesn't mean anything. You say that people you know are settled, but they have probably been settled for years before #metoo. All social media means that that women have more choice in selecting partners, they're not restricted to the local people.