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Jim |
Hi Evo,
Hope you're doing well.
1. How many friends do you really need? About three, maybe? I mean real friends.
2. Do you want as a friend anyone who believes slander without further investigation? I would guess not.
3. People are going to say and think all sorts of things, good and bad, most of them unaccountable. There's nothing you can do about it.
To heck with what other people think.
Physical attack and legal action are problems. Name-calling is not.
STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. (excuse the all-caps)
Best Wishes,
Jim |
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Evo |
These kind of comments are very hard to ignore especially as they are not true. The whole situation is now making me totally paranoid of everyone its a complete nighmare. |
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BR |
The fact that you moved and yet you have still been hit with these sorts of things shows that someone must be directly influencing the people who are calling you names etc.
I suggest you do what Veritas said. Move again and tell not a single person including family. Deal with your family and friends through a PO Box which is a long way from where you live. Only have a mobile and change the number every 6 months.
If the name calling etc then stops completely then you can add people back into your life one at a time every 3 months. It will then become clear WHEN the person who is causing you grief is finally "outed" or whoever knows them.
From what you are saying it sounds organised and it sounds as if it is a person or persons who is doing this.
The only way to stop it when you dont know who it is - is to to move and isolate yourself.
Alternatively you have to ride it out and ignore it like JK says. You know you are not a paedophile - you know they are wrong - so in the end you should just feel sorry for the braindead attitude of anyone who wishes to call a single male a paedophile.
Our society is now in such a mess because of Paedohysteria that people think anyone who is male is now a paedophile. What a sorry state of affairs. |
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Evo |
I have even thought of hiring a private detective to see if they could find the source of these malicious lies as I doubt anyone would be straight with me if I confronted them about this. All I know is if I do ever find out who is doing this I will take the idiots to court and sue them for everything they are worth ! |
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Evo |
Thanks for the advice, I am not imagining the situation it is very real and its like living a nightmare. I cant believe that people can can actually believe these types of rumours when there is not one single shred of evidence to support them, if they actually stopped to think about the allegations and the situation they would realise how ridiculous they where. I think the fact that my partner left me her entire estate in her will has put someones nose out of joint hence the malicious rumours and lies. I live in a city in a very nice area and have already moved once but the rumours seem to have followed me. This has been going on for over 3 years now and I am very very fed up with it  |
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