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Topic History of: Stuart Hall - you should have listened to my music...
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imo |
honey!oh sugar sugar. wrote:
I have always thought that the extreme reactions by social services to child abuse causes many to be left in distress and frightened to tell anyone in case they are "taken away"
Most children love their parents despite abuse, and dont want to be apart from them, they just want it to stop.
Once a child is removed from the home they are damaged so if this could be prevented by giving parents extra support and guidance it would be better for all. (not in every case, obviously)
I knew a girl who actually said to a social worker about her daughter something along the lines of 'she'll need to be taken off me I can't handle her I keep battering her' and the social worker apparently said we try not to do that now we try and keep the kids with their parents, this was about 2007. Her daughter was only about 2 or 3.
Though I knew of another girl that same year, who was 12 at the time who was over heard by a teacher saying her step dad had hit her with a belt and I think she called social services and her and her sister (who was 8) were taken away for a few nights and I think the step dad wasn't allowed back in the house till it had been looked into and sorted out, but she she'd apparently just made it up and he hadn't hit her with a belt at all. But that sort of thing never happend when I was at school, social services being called cause you've been over heard saying your dad hit you etc, i'm sure I used to say stuff like that about mine all the time...
I think if they think they've got justified reason to get involved, they should ask the kids (where possible) what they'd prefer, thats probably what matters most really...  |
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hedda |
the penalty for abuse is 2 years (less than 1 would be served)
the penalty for rape can be life.
what would you choose? |
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honey!oh sugar sugar. |
imo wrote:
hedda wrote:
indeed I cannot remember when child abuse was not condemned and an accusation wouldn't have been acted upon.
I clearly recall my mother when I told her (after I left school) that i was repeatedly caned, her absolute horror at a child being physically hit and how it was an absolute anathema to her, her friends and family (so that goes as far back as the 1880s)
Thats not how I was brought up, my mum used to knock me black and blue for the slightest thing and she thought her behavior entirely normal and justified, so did my dad... 
I have always thought that the extreme reactions by social services to child abuse causes many to be left in distress and frightened to tell anyone in case they are "taken away"
Most children love their parents despite abuse, and dont want to be apart from them, they just want it to stop.
Once a child is removed from the home they are damaged so if this could be prevented by giving parents extra support and guidance it would be better for all. (not in every case, obviously) |
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steveimp |
hat4uk.wordpress.com/2013/05/07/the-paed...ter-paedophile-mill/
Very interesting. Has Stuart Hall pled guilty to take it on the chin for someone else....? |
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imo |
hedda wrote:
indeed I cannot remember when child abuse was not condemned and an accusation wouldn't have been acted upon.
I clearly recall my mother when I told her (after I left school) that i was repeatedly caned, her absolute horror at a child being physically hit and how it was an absolute anathema to her, her friends and family (so that goes as far back as the 1880s)
Thats not how I was brought up, my mum used to knock me black and blue for the slightest thing and she thought her behavior entirely normal and justified, so did my dad... |
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