these people give me the creeps.
All I can think of is those "gay bashers" who - and this is something I never really understood - go out and beat up gays and can be also in the closet.
I met one once. Got to know him well. He was charming. He had secret affairs with blokes but still joined his Manchester pals and went to "gay beats" and attacked gays.
He ended up at 45 living with a very camp bloke who did drag in a bar in Ibizia. Hopefully gave up beating up people.
So weird.
# there are , apparently, over 20 unsolved murders of gay men at beats ( Bondi where I live !!) from the last 30 years in Sydney.
My pal who was a copper reckons it was a group of policemen who did it and at least 2 were closet gays.
Where is Freud when you need him?