The brotherly confidentially of these siblings has sailed - both will now watch the media to see what the other pair have said.
No longer is there trust - and advisors are taking the lead; the firm's reaction (largely silent so far) will be interesting.
Sadly - several decades ago, something similar happened. Another American divorcee married into the Windsor family - our King was virtually banished soon after.
Though not a King - Harry should read his tea leaves, and wonder if trying to live within the privileged dynasty (whilst simultaneously planning/doing unspecified other things) is yet even possible.
He has aluded to living in America and Africa; Meghan loves LA; the paint isn't dry yet at Frogmore; should Archie be raised as a Catholic, like his mother.
Then, is the US the best option - in view of the inability of his uncle and aunt to choose the right set there; Andrew is a huge story here like Trump, not Brexit.