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Re:WELBY 6 Months ago
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Yes times and values have changed and it was quite normal for teachers to thrash young boys often viciously.
When I told my Mum years later she said she would have torn down to the school and throttled my evil English Master had she known. She would have as well.  .
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Re:WELBY 6 Months ago
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Yes Cindy - of course he should have followed it up. But it is possible that Archbishops may have many more, much more urgent problems to deal with. It's also possible that one person possibly abusing pupils is not a massive problem unless, of course, covered by the media. But accepting he made a mistake, should he resign? Doesn't that let down millions needing his help - or rather, through him, the help of God? Many feel that, as with government, media is far more important than sensible, measured, deep analysis. And certainly far more important than God. But possibly God is equally simplistic. Possibly Jesus meant, when he said "Look after children", that all children are good and honest and kind - even when they grow up. That's what media believes - unless, of course, there's a BETTER STORY! I assume religion in 2024 regards forgiveness as unimportant. In which case Welby - and many others - should indeed resign and stop trying to spread the GOOD things in religions.
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Re:WELBY 6 Months ago
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JK, after you yourself have departed this mortal coil are you concerned that you will have others come along and allege things that you will no longer be able to answer back about?
Three years ago I had a conversation with a well known (gay married man) national radio presenter in the evenings on this issue when we were talking about the Gambo story after he'd been seen on TV slating the BBC in a feisty Victoria Derbyshire interview. This presenter, who shall remain nameless and has not a hint of impropriety against his name was talking less than empathetic about Gambo which surprised me, so I asked him why he couldn't see why Gambo was so angry at what had happened to him and if he himself as a gay man a few years younger wasn't concerned about himself and the possibility that someone out there could simply step forward and make claims against him and attempt to destroy his career and reputation, and maybe succeed. He seemed confident it couldn't happen, but then slightly changed tack and accepted that it was always a slight worry in the background after events in recent years.
I remember working a brief casual job 30 years ago which involved a lot of public interactions. One afternoon I got called in and shown a letter making allegations against me about my behaviour. It alleged serious rudeness to someone during a short encounter lasting two minutes. I recognised who this person was who wrote the letter. It was total fabrication, nothing had happened at all, absolutely nothing, we'd had a normal encounter, no rudeness of any kind or anything to raise issue. Yet this person had gone home, sat down and put pen to paper and fired it off to my employer and very nearly got me dismissed on the spot because of what they had written, which must have been the intention. It made no sense to me, I was confused and couldn't work it out, or why it had happened or why this person had done this to me, I'd not said or done anything to them to warrant it. Maybe some people see it as sport to do such things, I've no idea.
Of course there was no definitive proof either way, just one word against another. Yet my employer put me on a final warning, depsite a clean blameless hard working record, just like that, and seemed to believe one fantasy letter from a stranger over me who they knew. It added insult to the situation, so within a month I gave them no notice and simply walked away to something else better if they allowed themselves to be that easily taken in.
It was just a rudness allegation, nothing worse compared to others, but even so, all these years later I still think about it and wonder why someone told such lies about me to try and get me fired, someone who didn't even know me and who I'd never met before that day.
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