oh Giles2008 you are giving away some secrets there but that hankie stuff was going on in heavy leather bars-as opposed to 8 year olds.
In fact it used to be de rigeur for uptown dinner parties in NY to descend downtown to the dockland areas in limos and wander the upper circle of one famous club where the scene below was like Sodom & Gommorrah !! (I never went !)
It's complicated isn't it ?..are these kids really aware of what they are doing or is a new version of the old "doctors & nurses" game ?
I do however getting pretty pissed of with advertisers taking advantage of the innocence of children.
This 'shag band"idea could have some very unpleasant consequences if some of us older ones joined in..
