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When my mother died, I put almost everything (photos / reminders etc) away and did not want to see them for some time - then after several months I noticed that I was getting them all out again (and was looking at them in a different light).
Initially everything is a sad reminder (when feelings are still a bit raw) ... but eventually they all become very happy reminders.