always complain..I do!. Complain loudly no matter what those around you do. Don't be put off their natural reservation. Something sinks in and you may convert just person which is a success.
Both my parents were wonderful complainers and taught me well.
There must be hundreds of supermarket cashiers and managers who trembled at the sight of my mother..knowing what was in store for them.
My father was a fiery Scotsman who never took rubbish from anyone. He always drove a car but it broke down one day and he had to come to collect me from school on the bus. He said what a terrible experience it was despite my protestations that buses were crowded every day.
When we got on for the return trip the conducter loudly said one person would have to get off as the bus was too crowded..my father said.."
oh just go on and forget it"..the conducter insisted one person had to get or the bus wouldn't move.
My dad was now bright red in the face..not a good sign. "OK he shouted..why don't
you get off !". He picked up the conductor and plonked him on the footpath and then rang the bell as the bus took off leaving the shell shocked conductor staring at the departing bus.