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The Edlington killer children
TOPIC: The Edlington killer children
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Re:The Edlington killer children 14 Years, 3 Months ago
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I came from the worst kind of broken home, one where the parents stayed together for the sake of the kids. I witnessed a lot of violent rows between my parents when I was a child and there were times in my childhood that weren't very happy at all. And yet none of this turned me into violent thug. In fact, over sixty years later, I still haven't harmed anyone. I had no intention of being like my father. So what does this suggest? Only that different children are affected in different ways by their childhood experiences. What would be like water off a duck's back to some kids, seriously affects other kids.
Here is a little anecdote about my childhood to try and prove my point:
When I was a little boy and was being bullied by other boys, I just would not retaliate, no matter how much I was hit or kicked. I would just roll up in a ball and take the beating. Even at five or six years of age, despite being exposed to frequent domestic rows and violence between my parents, I believed it was wrong to hit people and hurt them and I wanted no part of it.
One day in 1952, when I was five years old, I ran into the house complaining to my father that this boy had been hitting me. My father strolled outside into the street with me and grabbed the boy, who was aged about six or seven and pinned him against him with his strong arms, so that the boy could not move free from my father’s very strong grasp. “He can’t touch you now”, said my father, “Now hit him...go on, hit him as hard as you can and keep on hitting him until he cries enough!” Well, I just stood there, staring at this strange sight. But I could not bring myself to hit the boy. After a while, my father looked very disappointed at me and let the boy go and the boy ran off.
So I have to agree with robbiex on this one. Some children are just born evil and some are not. Some may use their home life as an excuse for terrible behaviour, but in truth, no one knows why some children are like those two boys in Edlington and why some are like I used to be.
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