JK2006 wrote:
. That is precisely why so many priests and vicars and teachers and doctors were disciplined, punished and/or moved away at the time.
(apologies- I seem to be posting on this issue in 2 different threads, but my points are different).
I think I can agree with most of your post above, JK. But the main thrust of the current issue is that it is alledged that priests were not properly disciplined. Moved away, yes- but surely that was very inappropriate. The case of the priest in the US who apparently abused up to 200 deaf kids is shocking. The Vatican, at least up to and including the level of Cardinal Ratzinger, knew of this case. French tv today provided proof of this in the form of a letter to Ratzinger.
It would seem that the alledgedly offending priest was simply moved away to another area, where he could do the same again. Appalling if true.
As for kids receiving counselling, maybe- but what of those who were (apparently) made to sign vows of silence?
JK, I appreciate that as a victim of false accusers yourself, you are naturally more vigilant and aware than most about how false allegations can be used to convict. I love Vile Pervert and it has opened my eyes considerably. But let's not go to the other extreme as I felt you were doing in your opening post of implying that they were all enjoying it otherwise they would have left the f***g choir. Abuse is complex and if the child is young he or she can be confused by what is going on and therefore afraid to do anything about it.
One last point if I may
You implied that my friend might have learned to blame subsequent problems on earlier abuse. Now as you don't know me or my friend I didn't take that personally and I get the point you were making, as I recognised it from Vile Pervert.
But I would say this: I was a victim of abuse myself (tho not sexual) which caused me serious childhood trauma. The effects of that trauma are still with me today in the form of mental health issues which have been at times very severe. I remember the Clinical Psychologist who treated me for a year and a half quite recently saying that childhood trauma and abuse almost inevitably result in mental health problems which last into adulthood and that they are very difficult to treat.
So I take your points about false allegations and blaming issues in your life on earlier abuse. But neither I nor my friend have ever sought to make money out of what happened and have not gone to the media.